Everything changes when you decide to go through life thinking about how and what you can give instead of how to get what you want or avoid the things you fear. For example, if you are going to a party where you don’t know anyone, you can create a lot anxiety for yourself by worrying, “How can I get people to like me? How can I avoid being alone?” However, if you walk in thinking, “What can I give? I can give people my smile, my interest, my acceptance and my sense of humor,” you will feel great. The moment you decide to give, your heart opens and Spirit fills you with love and peace.